What is love?
This is a question that has come across our mind once in life it is generated from the curiosity to know the unknown but where does that curiosity lead us, it leads to finding the answer on our own many people have confused it with materialistic things, things that please eyes not soul, things that satisfy body not heart for what is love if it can not complete your soul for that it is not love just transaction many modern day couples expect each other to meet their needs and they have a hint of selfishness in their relationship making it a transactional relationship that becomes a burden and a prison to both the partners ultimately leading to toxicity and resentment in the relationship
what is love do we really need it?
Love is nothing but a sweet pain a pain that satisfies the soul a pain that aids itself, it is not about I it is always about US selfishness never exists in it, if it does it means nothing every action done with the feeling to make the other person happy but many people nowadays has lost the ability to feel, as it requires a lot of courage and strength of mind it is about enduring the endless storm for the wait of a shore to relax ,if one wants to be loved they must have the capability to bear pain otherwise they will be just a liability to themselves and their partner.
Modern-day men and women and love,
Most Men and women in this generation do not love they just use each other whether it is for emotional support physical needs, or for whether for ego boost situations may vary for relationships
so is it their fault for being like this?
Somewhat yes as we all have different circumstances we overcome and our mind adjusts to that accordingly for our survival what we lacked in those situations is what we seek in other people thus making us bitter and the relationship with them also as we intend to use them for the sake of our own from the day one that is why we must feel fulfilled in ourselves only then we can love someone with our heart as no matter the pain it gives it is worth every single ache but most people nowadays are afraid of that pain due to their past experiences and its ok to fear but we should not let that fear control our actions as we are not afraid of lit we are just afraid of the same pain if one fears too much then they can’t love as it is free we must be free in order to make our partner ecstatic
shall we not fear losing them?
absolutely , but we should but that should not restrain our love each person is different and so does their language and it is our duty to not discriminate them for their language and we must love them as they want so they feel comfort. we should always remember to have feelings without attachment as it will mean means doing and wishing the best for your partner whereas attachment only limits to me and you rather than us as attachment is the basis of regret and pain one should not themselves to anybody for a happy and healthy relationship nowadays many people mistake and attach themselves to results humans and other materialistic things and thus suffer very badly and while this attachment seems good at one point it usually brings destruction in someone’s life one must not attach themselves to anything and should always remember to provide as loving someone is not the norm nowadays so deviate yourself from others and become what you are.
CONCLUSION
One must love fully in order to know the depth of their own as it grows both the person in the relationship thus fear and past experiences should not guide our actions then only we are free.
